Depending on your geographical location, church denomination and family lifestyle, modesty might have been a controversial topic in your family. Typically, the more conservative and fundamentalist the Christian home, the more strict and severe in terms of modesty. For women rules often include: no pants, long skirts only, no shoulders showing — or ankles (heaven forbid!) — sometimes even hair covered. On the less extreme end, there are guidelines rather than rules, which was the case in my home, but, more than anything, I set modest rules for myself, which I now realize is not everyone’s privilege. However, my dad did say make-up made me look like a hooker, so I was discouraged from that.